5 people in our family, that is.
Well, we're expecting again! I've had two ultrasounds -- no mistaking -- it's just ONE baby this time. The 40 week due date is August 22. Due to my prior fibroid surgery and previous c-section I'm considered "high risk" again and will deliver between 36 and 37 weeks. That puts my delivery between July 25 and August 1.
This will be our last pregnancy, not only because I'm sooo done being preggers, but it's also doctor's orders given my previous surgeries and coming c-section.
We're more excited now that the news is out. We will find out the sex at the end of March. We're thinking it's a girl. Just a feeling...
Monday, February 13, 2012
A Year and a Half!
Belated post on the girls turning a year and a half old on January 18. They had their 18 month check up at that time and are doing fine.
Grace’s stats:
25 pounds 10 ounces (70th percentile)
32 ½ inches tall (75th percentile)
48.5 cm head circumference (90th percentile! Hahaha)
Frances’ stats:
26 pounds 4 ounces (75th percentile)
32 ½ inches tall (75th percentile)
47.5 cm head circumference (80th percentile hehehe)
We had noticed a hard spot on Frances' heal awhile back (probably August). But thought it was a callous or something. And subsequently forgot to ask about it at the 15 month checkup, so I remembered to ask at this one. The pediatrician thought it might be a wart! Poor Frances. Too much playing at the playground and library without shoes or socks on this summer. Lesson learned. So anyway, Richard took her to the dermatologist who confirmed the diagnosis and said the treatments available are too painful. So either we subject her to crazy pain or she rides out the wart pain until it disappears on its own (whenever that is). In the meantime she had been limping from an injury to her other foot. Turns out it was a sprain. But we're better from that now.
The dermatologist also prescribed a steriod cream for the girls' eczema. The hydrocortisone just wasn't cutting it. We had some horrible horrible eczema in the diaper area that resulted in numerous "horror" scenes of us finding blood on crib railings and sheets from the girls (especially Frances) just itching and itching. Poor babies and poor, helpless mommy and daddy too! But this cream has been AMAZING. So happy now :-) And we don't have to use it everyday. Whew!
The girls are changing so much. The pediatrician said the language explosion occurs between 18 and 24 months and man-o-man it's like a light switch turned on. A lot of the change is verbal, they can say more things. A lot is cognitive; they understand so much and can point out so many items when you ask where x, y, z is. Grace is so crazy good at that. Frances loves counting. Albeit, not in order. She has favorite numbers to say: 2, 4 and 8. Funny girl.
They also are playing with each other so much more now. It is so amusing. They like our Michael Jackson CD and love to hold hands and dance to the music. So cute. I know, need videos - but they stop everytime we bring the camera out!
Frances likes the song "Bad." She sings along, "I'm bad, I'm bad..." It's so funny. You can ask her, "Frances, are you bad?" And she says, "I'm bad." Hahaha. So cute.
We are also getting practice at "timeout." Trying to ween them out of the whole "the world revolves around me" phase. It's hard, but so far timeout is working - we'll see how long that lasts! Ha.
We put them on the scale last night and they both weighed 27 lbs. 2 oz. Chunky monkeys!
Grace’s stats:
25 pounds 10 ounces (70th percentile)
32 ½ inches tall (75th percentile)
48.5 cm head circumference (90th percentile! Hahaha)
Frances’ stats:
26 pounds 4 ounces (75th percentile)
32 ½ inches tall (75th percentile)
47.5 cm head circumference (80th percentile hehehe)
We had noticed a hard spot on Frances' heal awhile back (probably August). But thought it was a callous or something. And subsequently forgot to ask about it at the 15 month checkup, so I remembered to ask at this one. The pediatrician thought it might be a wart! Poor Frances. Too much playing at the playground and library without shoes or socks on this summer. Lesson learned. So anyway, Richard took her to the dermatologist who confirmed the diagnosis and said the treatments available are too painful. So either we subject her to crazy pain or she rides out the wart pain until it disappears on its own (whenever that is). In the meantime she had been limping from an injury to her other foot. Turns out it was a sprain. But we're better from that now.
The dermatologist also prescribed a steriod cream for the girls' eczema. The hydrocortisone just wasn't cutting it. We had some horrible horrible eczema in the diaper area that resulted in numerous "horror" scenes of us finding blood on crib railings and sheets from the girls (especially Frances) just itching and itching. Poor babies and poor, helpless mommy and daddy too! But this cream has been AMAZING. So happy now :-) And we don't have to use it everyday. Whew!
The girls are changing so much. The pediatrician said the language explosion occurs between 18 and 24 months and man-o-man it's like a light switch turned on. A lot of the change is verbal, they can say more things. A lot is cognitive; they understand so much and can point out so many items when you ask where x, y, z is. Grace is so crazy good at that. Frances loves counting. Albeit, not in order. She has favorite numbers to say: 2, 4 and 8. Funny girl.
They also are playing with each other so much more now. It is so amusing. They like our Michael Jackson CD and love to hold hands and dance to the music. So cute. I know, need videos - but they stop everytime we bring the camera out!
Frances likes the song "Bad." She sings along, "I'm bad, I'm bad..." It's so funny. You can ask her, "Frances, are you bad?" And she says, "I'm bad." Hahaha. So cute.
We are also getting practice at "timeout." Trying to ween them out of the whole "the world revolves around me" phase. It's hard, but so far timeout is working - we'll see how long that lasts! Ha.
We put them on the scale last night and they both weighed 27 lbs. 2 oz. Chunky monkeys!
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
A Thing Or Two About Twins - National Geographic Magazine
Interesting National Geographic Magazine article several people have recommended to me, "A Thing or Two About Twins"
Teaser: "Twins could reveal how genes and the environment interact to make us who we are."
There are a couple links to photo galleries of twins on the left side of the article.
Teaser: "Twins could reveal how genes and the environment interact to make us who we are."
There are a couple links to photo galleries of twins on the left side of the article.
Monday, January 09, 2012
Sisterly Love? And Cousins Galore!
So I was playing in the hallway with the girls yesterday. They were having a grand old time, laughing and giggling. Grace was laughing extra hard - ya know, head thrown back and everything - and she lost her balance and went face first into the door trim, subsequently bounced off, and fell on the floor. Hard. It looked painful. So I wasn't surprised when she started crying. She wrapped her arms around my legs, sobbing, and I rubbed her head saying "Awww. It's okay Gracie. You're okay. I know it hurt. Awww poor baby."
Frances immediately comes up behind Grace and puts her chubby little hand up to the back of Grace's head and starts moving it back and forth over Grace's hair and commences to say "Awww. Awww. Awww." It was the funniest thing. It was all I could do to refrain from laughing - I didn't want Grace to think I was laughing at her misfortune (development note: we have embarrassment issues now).
So after a quick consoling from myself and Frances, Grace was back off running. Then I hear Richard ask, "Annie, what's on Grace's face?" And sure enough she rounds the corner of the kitchen with a big bloody smile. Literally. She got a big ol' busted lip from her ordeal. Poor girl. She's a trooper though.
So who knows if Frances really felt sympathy towards Grace or whether she was just copying mommy? Usually when one falls and cries, the other immediately performs their best fake fall and cry (also very very amusing).
Fun times with the Wacha girls.
And we're excited to hear we have a new baby cousin on the way. My how the family is growing all of a sudden!? Can't wait to meet Baby Songha this summer! Congrats Tiana and Sega!
Frances immediately comes up behind Grace and puts her chubby little hand up to the back of Grace's head and starts moving it back and forth over Grace's hair and commences to say "Awww. Awww. Awww." It was the funniest thing. It was all I could do to refrain from laughing - I didn't want Grace to think I was laughing at her misfortune (development note: we have embarrassment issues now).
So after a quick consoling from myself and Frances, Grace was back off running. Then I hear Richard ask, "Annie, what's on Grace's face?" And sure enough she rounds the corner of the kitchen with a big bloody smile. Literally. She got a big ol' busted lip from her ordeal. Poor girl. She's a trooper though.
So who knows if Frances really felt sympathy towards Grace or whether she was just copying mommy? Usually when one falls and cries, the other immediately performs their best fake fall and cry (also very very amusing).
Fun times with the Wacha girls.
And we're excited to hear we have a new baby cousin on the way. My how the family is growing all of a sudden!? Can't wait to meet Baby Songha this summer! Congrats Tiana and Sega!
Sunday, January 01, 2012
Saturday, December 03, 2011
Oh November, where did you go?
November flew right by! I added some pictures to the 15 month album on my Photos Page, as well as added a 16 month album. I have also added 4 videos on my Video Page.
We went to Aunt Signe and Uncle Freddy's house for the annual November birthday celebration. We saw all of our family and got to play with cousin Ben again.
Over Veterans Day weekend we enjoyed a visit by our godmother, Aunt Amy. We played in the leaves, explored the trails, and had lots of fun! It was wayyyy too short, but we were glad Aunt Amy made it down to visit :-)
We turned 16 months old on the 18th. Wow.
And on Turkey Day we welcomed Grandma and Grandpa Parry, Uncle Tommy, Aunt Amber, and cousins Isaak and Savannah. It was a great visit. Nice to have lots of help and distractions in the house. I of course enjoyed as much baby time with Savannah as I could -- only had a couple instances of jealousy with the girls. Savannah is soooooo cute! And such a good baby! And Isaak was so fun reading his bear hunt book - like seriously, he could probably read it, he's a genius, I swear. Oh! And Aunt Violet came for a visit as well. And even though she had been travelling since the day before, she still had lots of energy to deal with all of us hehehe. Uncle Rawknee came too and Uncle Paul.
And then November was over. Just like that!
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| Francie hamming it up and Grace chilling in the background. |
We went to Aunt Signe and Uncle Freddy's house for the annual November birthday celebration. We saw all of our family and got to play with cousin Ben again.
Over Veterans Day weekend we enjoyed a visit by our godmother, Aunt Amy. We played in the leaves, explored the trails, and had lots of fun! It was wayyyy too short, but we were glad Aunt Amy made it down to visit :-)
We turned 16 months old on the 18th. Wow.
And on Turkey Day we welcomed Grandma and Grandpa Parry, Uncle Tommy, Aunt Amber, and cousins Isaak and Savannah. It was a great visit. Nice to have lots of help and distractions in the house. I of course enjoyed as much baby time with Savannah as I could -- only had a couple instances of jealousy with the girls. Savannah is soooooo cute! And such a good baby! And Isaak was so fun reading his bear hunt book - like seriously, he could probably read it, he's a genius, I swear. Oh! And Aunt Violet came for a visit as well. And even though she had been travelling since the day before, she still had lots of energy to deal with all of us hehehe. Uncle Rawknee came too and Uncle Paul.
And then November was over. Just like that!
Friday, November 04, 2011
Happy (Belated) Halloween!
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| Francie and Gracie |
They say "Will Trade Sister for CANDY" -- and it really does look like they mean it.
Monday, October 24, 2011
15 Month Checkup
First things first, I've added a few more photos to the 14th Month album link on my Photos page, as well as a link to a new 15 month album.
Today, we had our 15 month check up. We did fine. Didn't like shots, but that is to be expected. Here are our current stats:
Grace
Weight: 24 lbs. 6 1/2 oz. (75th percentile)
Height: 31 in. (70th percentile)
Frances
Weight: 24 lbs. 4 1/2 oz. (70th percentile)
Height: 31 in. (70th percentile)
I can't remember head circumference, but I know they are big! haha.
Over the weekend Uncle Rawknee came to visit and we went back to Clarks Elioak Farm. Frances was as giddy as ever. Nobody yelled "quirrel" at the animals this time. But Frances had her crazy happy feet going and was screaching at the animals in excitment. She was petting the goats (mostly hitting, I had to tell her "gentle" like she even understands). Grace remained apprehensive as she was on our last visit. She did not want to touch any animals. So we're making our rounds and Frances' interest is peaked by a cow mooing in her pen. So we walk over to the fence and the cow walks right up to Frances and moos in her face. Frances stumbled backwards in shock and fell over. And then commenced the meltdown. It took about 5 minutes to calm her down. I took her back to the cows to show her that they were just mooing for food -- so that she wouldn't be scared of them. Whatever, she wanted to move on. So we went to the pigs and then to the donkey. Well, it was just not Frances' day because that donkey started hee-hawing with its eyes bulging, teeth baring, and tongue hanging. She went into super meltdown mode and from then on wanted NOTHING to do with animals. I even tried taking her back to the goats and chickens (her fav part) and she wouldn't let me put her down without clinging to me. I felt horrible. Hopefully she'll forget about the whole thing and not be scarred for life.
We also went to the park a lot this weekend. Trying to get a lot of outdoor time in before winter :-)
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| Enjoying the Fall foliage at Centennial Park |
Today, we had our 15 month check up. We did fine. Didn't like shots, but that is to be expected. Here are our current stats:
Grace
Weight: 24 lbs. 6 1/2 oz. (75th percentile)
Height: 31 in. (70th percentile)
Frances
Weight: 24 lbs. 4 1/2 oz. (70th percentile)
Height: 31 in. (70th percentile)
I can't remember head circumference, but I know they are big! haha.
Over the weekend Uncle Rawknee came to visit and we went back to Clarks Elioak Farm. Frances was as giddy as ever. Nobody yelled "quirrel" at the animals this time. But Frances had her crazy happy feet going and was screaching at the animals in excitment. She was petting the goats (mostly hitting, I had to tell her "gentle" like she even understands). Grace remained apprehensive as she was on our last visit. She did not want to touch any animals. So we're making our rounds and Frances' interest is peaked by a cow mooing in her pen. So we walk over to the fence and the cow walks right up to Frances and moos in her face. Frances stumbled backwards in shock and fell over. And then commenced the meltdown. It took about 5 minutes to calm her down. I took her back to the cows to show her that they were just mooing for food -- so that she wouldn't be scared of them. Whatever, she wanted to move on. So we went to the pigs and then to the donkey. Well, it was just not Frances' day because that donkey started hee-hawing with its eyes bulging, teeth baring, and tongue hanging. She went into super meltdown mode and from then on wanted NOTHING to do with animals. I even tried taking her back to the goats and chickens (her fav part) and she wouldn't let me put her down without clinging to me. I felt horrible. Hopefully she'll forget about the whole thing and not be scarred for life.
We also went to the park a lot this weekend. Trying to get a lot of outdoor time in before winter :-)
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
15 Months Old and a New Baby Cousin!
We turned 15 months old today and got a new baby cousin as a present! Yay! AND it is also Grandpa Parry's birthday today, so an extra special birthday for him as well. Yay for everybody!
Welcome baby cousin Savannah we look forward to play dates with you and cousin Isaak!
Congratulations to Uncle Tommy, Aunt Amber and cousin Isaak on your new addition :-)
Welcome baby cousin Savannah we look forward to play dates with you and cousin Isaak!
Congratulations to Uncle Tommy, Aunt Amber and cousin Isaak on your new addition :-)
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| Tom, Amber, Isaak and Savannah |
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| Baby Savannah and her big brother Isaak |
Sunday, October 02, 2011
Clarks Elioak Farm
First things first: I FINALLY uploaded some pictures and a few videos (see the respective Videos and Photos pages for links.)
Having been holed up in the house with colds for the past week, we ventured out to Clarks Elioak Farm, just a short ride (about 5 mins) up the road. They have a petting farm, an Enchanted Forest of fairy tales, and a pine tree maze. It's so much fun! (See pictures from our trip in the "14th Month" album on my Photos page.)
Frances LOVED the animals. Right away she was exploring and yelling and so excited.
Grace was a bit more reserved to start. She didn't know what to think but she eventually warmed up. The funniest part was that they would point and shout at each animal, "quirrel! quirrel!" I guess I should mention that we have A LOT of squirrels around our house, so everytime we go outside we see them and the girls shout "quirrel!" It was so funny, they had everybody laughing. I guess we should have known this issue yesterday when we saw deer on the backyard and the girls shouted "quirrel" then too. Ah well. We do have books with other animals in them, I guess quirrel is the easiest word for them to say now. They say dog, gat (for cat) and duck, but we didn't see any of those. hahaha.
Tomorrow, Frances has a follow up with the GI doctor. She's slowly switching to Neocate Jr., a hypoallergenic toddler formula. For the amount she drinks, we would pay close to 600 dollars a month! But we appealed to the insurance company and now we pay only 50 dollars! Thank God. That was a bit of a worrisome month wondering how we were going to pay for the nutrition she needed.
Other than that, we're doing well and staying very, very busy with two toddlers under foot.
Having been holed up in the house with colds for the past week, we ventured out to Clarks Elioak Farm, just a short ride (about 5 mins) up the road. They have a petting farm, an Enchanted Forest of fairy tales, and a pine tree maze. It's so much fun! (See pictures from our trip in the "14th Month" album on my Photos page.)
Frances LOVED the animals. Right away she was exploring and yelling and so excited.
Grace was a bit more reserved to start. She didn't know what to think but she eventually warmed up. The funniest part was that they would point and shout at each animal, "quirrel! quirrel!" I guess I should mention that we have A LOT of squirrels around our house, so everytime we go outside we see them and the girls shout "quirrel!" It was so funny, they had everybody laughing. I guess we should have known this issue yesterday when we saw deer on the backyard and the girls shouted "quirrel" then too. Ah well. We do have books with other animals in them, I guess quirrel is the easiest word for them to say now. They say dog, gat (for cat) and duck, but we didn't see any of those. hahaha.
Tomorrow, Frances has a follow up with the GI doctor. She's slowly switching to Neocate Jr., a hypoallergenic toddler formula. For the amount she drinks, we would pay close to 600 dollars a month! But we appealed to the insurance company and now we pay only 50 dollars! Thank God. That was a bit of a worrisome month wondering how we were going to pay for the nutrition she needed.
Other than that, we're doing well and staying very, very busy with two toddlers under foot.
Thursday, September 08, 2011
Attack of the Baby Walkers!
The girls are officially walking now! There had been tentative steps here and there for a couple weeks and then voila we just started walking across the livingroom. Tuesday night Grace was walking across the livingroom, the dining room, and their bedroom. And loving it, in Gracezilla fashion. Frances was more apprehensive. The nanny thought maybe another couple of weeks before Frances started doing floor length laps. But yesterday she was walking all over the place. Crazy how fast they learn.
13 months, 3 weeks = the beginning of some serious physical workouts for mommy, daddy, and nanny chasing after two toddlers.
Note to self: Gotta find some kid leashes (I sympathize with those parents now)!
UPDATED to add walking video (from 14 months):
13 months, 3 weeks = the beginning of some serious physical workouts for mommy, daddy, and nanny chasing after two toddlers.
Note to self: Gotta find some kid leashes (I sympathize with those parents now)!
UPDATED to add walking video (from 14 months):
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Jabberjaws and Waddles
UPDATE: In the evening Grace took her first steps! Yay! I feel like a horrible mother because I don't remember the actual day when Frances took her first steps, but it was the last week of July, right before she got sick, so you can imagine how side-tracked we got pretty quickly. Now that she's regaining her strength maybe she'll give it another go!
We love talking now.
Grace's vocabulary is growing: stop, go, up, down, dada, chomp, baby, quack, done, ball and hello.
Frances' vocabulary is growing as well: stop, go, up, dada, done, ball and hello.
They like requesting stuff by holding out their hands and signaling what they want. They understand when we say belly, walk, stand, cheerios (one of their fav words), etc. etc.
We're doing a lot of standing up by ourselves without any assistance. And we like to do it for long periods of time. And we're really proud of ourselves. Mommy, daddy, and nanny are happy too, albeit afraid of what it will lead to: two mobile toddlers! We shall wait and see...
Grace loves to take off her own shirt (you have to help her with her arms but she likes taking it off from there). She also loves handing you her diaper, so you can wrap it up for Mr. Trash Can. Nice girl.
It's so crazy how fast kids learn and change.
We're in the process of researching and visiting daycares to prepare for next summer when the girls turn 2. Wow, what a headache. And we have to cross fingers they'll have two slots open in the same age group at the same time. And then worrying about Frances' food allergy issues. And of course the ultimate issue: finances. Arrggghhh can't wait to get it figured out!
We love talking now.
Grace's vocabulary is growing: stop, go, up, down, dada, chomp, baby, quack, done, ball and hello.
Frances' vocabulary is growing as well: stop, go, up, dada, done, ball and hello.
They like requesting stuff by holding out their hands and signaling what they want. They understand when we say belly, walk, stand, cheerios (one of their fav words), etc. etc.
We're doing a lot of standing up by ourselves without any assistance. And we like to do it for long periods of time. And we're really proud of ourselves. Mommy, daddy, and nanny are happy too, albeit afraid of what it will lead to: two mobile toddlers! We shall wait and see...
Grace loves to take off her own shirt (you have to help her with her arms but she likes taking it off from there). She also loves handing you her diaper, so you can wrap it up for Mr. Trash Can. Nice girl.
It's so crazy how fast kids learn and change.
We're in the process of researching and visiting daycares to prepare for next summer when the girls turn 2. Wow, what a headache. And we have to cross fingers they'll have two slots open in the same age group at the same time. And then worrying about Frances' food allergy issues. And of course the ultimate issue: finances. Arrggghhh can't wait to get it figured out!
Friday, August 12, 2011
Allergies, Chicken Pox, and Everything in Between
The stuff you want to sign up for as a parent: the first time your baby calls you “mama."
The stuff you don’t want to sign up for as a parent: illnesses - be they mild or severe – they all suck!
The last few weeks have been eventful. It all started after the girls' 12 month checkup. The Wednesday following, Grace and Frances had both developed some bumps but we thought they were mosquito bites. Frances' appetite began waning (very, very unusual for her). We thought maybe she was just teething extra badly (some molars were coming in). Between Wednesday and Thursday she only ate a couple spoons of applesauce and a cookie. Nothing more. However, by that Friday, she was refusing fluids as well and was throwing up – A LOT. A dilemma...
Was she just plain sick?
Was she having a soy allergy (we had been trying to introduce her to soy milk and were just 2 days shy of 2 full weeks on soy)?
Was she having a reaction to one of the vaccines she received?
By the time I got home from work she was just a lump of clay on the living room floor. She had a low grade fever – just shy of 101 – nothing dangerous. But her lips were so dry and her eyes were all sunken and she just laid there without moving. Every time I tried to pick her up, she’d throw up. But she had nothing left in her belly so it was that bile stuff and violent dry heaves. Poor baby. So I called the pediatrician and she said to take her to ER.
Fortunately, my mom was still here helping us out while the nanny was on vacation. She stayed home with Grace while Richard and I trekked off to the hospital with Frances. So we get to the ER and they get her in a room pretty quickly. They can tell right away that she’s dehydrated. So they decide to give her IV fluids. Now getting an IV into the arm of a squirming, unhappy baby is not easy (and babies have that extra fat which inhibits searching for veins, being dehydrated doesn't help either) – so the nurses requested that mom and dad help hold her down. Richard subsequently left the room, without notice. So I had to hold her legs and arm down and try to reassure her – the reassuring part being next to impossible. So she was screaming and crying of course because it hurt and she was scared and I was singing to her and talking to her in a fruitless attempt at distraction. Emotionally I was doing really well, since I knew this was to make her feel better. Then it happened… she screamed, “Ma! Ma! Ma!” A knife went straight through my heart. And then I felt horrible. Why? Because that was the FIRST time she called me mom. I felt so horrible because she was clearly seeking my help and I couldn’t do anything to help her, instead, I was aiding in the “torture.” I know that is completely illogical, but really, logic seems to fly out the window when it comes to your child being in distress. Logically, I know that by getting her the IV I was helping her to feel better. Illogically, I wanted to fix her by saying “presto!” Richard returned to the room when she shouted “Da!” They got the IV in right when he was coming up to the bed. He reached to scoop her up for comforting and I admit I was selfish and kept her to myself for comforting – hey, I figured I didn’t want her to view me as the torturer and daddy as her savior. Yes, totally, totally, totally selfish, I know that’s wrong. And for those of you wondering, yes, Richard did feel bad for leaving the room.
So anyway, that’s one reason I hate illnesses and now a very traumatizing way (for me at least) to remember the first time she called me mom.
The ER doctor and nurse assured us it was a stomach virus that we'd just have to wait out. By Saturday she was doing much better and by Sunday, even better still. So on Monday, Richard gave her a bit of milk in the morning. A couple hours later the nanny calls because Frances was throwing up again. I left work early and took that Tuesday off as well to help get her back to keeping the Pedialyte down. We called the pediatrician's office again and they said there was a stomach virus going around that’s taking 2 weeks to clear up and just to keep her on a bland diet with pedialyte for a few more days.
Meanwhile the bumps we noticed a week back have scabbed over, and some new ones appear on Grace. We now suspect Chicken Pox. They got the vaccine at their 12 month checkup and the doctor said they could get it from the vaccine. The nurse at the pediatrician's office confirms the chicken pox diagnosis for Grace on Thursday. By Saturday, a full week and a half after Frances first started feeling yucky, we decide to try (for the second time) introducing a bit of milk back into her diet. Grandma and Grandpa who had left town for the week had returned just in time for her to start vomiting all over again (poor Richard got drenched, Linda Blair-style). It is at this point we conlude the vomiting is indeed an allergic reaction to soy.
After input from 5 medical professionals (pediatrician, ER doc, 3 nurses), who all assured Richard and I that Frances' illness was in no way allergy or vaccine related, we discover that those were in fact the culprits. We did the calculations as to when the bumps first appeared on both girls. Grace had far more and they started the same Wednesday that Frances' appetite started to disappear. At that point, Frances had a couple bumps. And then the day after we took Frances to the ER I noticed a big red welt on her thigh, and asked my parents if they thought it was a spider bite because there were two small bumps in it. I thought maybe that was making her sick. My mom noted that was where she got her vaccines. And Grace got the same big welt where her vaccines were too! So Frances' low grade fever was probably attributable to the chicken pox and she just happened to be unfortunate enough to have her soy allergy present itself at the exact same time! Poor girl.
Anyway, we starved her for a week and a half for nothing. But I can't be completely angry with the doctors, it's hard to diagnose an infant -- hell, it took us a week and a half to figure it all out and we're with her all the time. It's still so frustrating when they completely rule out otherwise plausible explanations. Ah well. And Richard kept saying "soy allergy" and I kept saying "no" because all the medical professionals said "no way." I guess we've learned to trust our instincts. Nobody knows your child better than you do.
So now Frances is back on her hypoallergenic formula and right as rain. She had been our little “chubbette,” but due to her illness, lost considerable weight. She looks so skinny to us. At the ER visit she weighed in at 22 ¼ pounds - that’s a whole pound and a quarter down from her 12 month checkup the week before! We're guestimating that she probably lost at least 2 pounds during the whole ordeal, which is a lot for someone so little.
So now, Frances is on a dairy, soy and egg free diet. The allergist said the stricter we are about elminating all potential sources of allergen, the quicker she could grow out of them. Cross fingers! We're reassured by the fact that Grace has outgrown her milk allergy and is on whole cow's milk now. As for the chicken pox, Grace had several more appear on Monday of this week but hopefully this is the last batch. Thanks to it being the mild version from the vaccine, it has been pretty "easy." Frances only had a few pox and the fever. Grace had more pox but no fever. Interesting.
The stuff you don’t want to sign up for as a parent: illnesses - be they mild or severe – they all suck!
The last few weeks have been eventful. It all started after the girls' 12 month checkup. The Wednesday following, Grace and Frances had both developed some bumps but we thought they were mosquito bites. Frances' appetite began waning (very, very unusual for her). We thought maybe she was just teething extra badly (some molars were coming in). Between Wednesday and Thursday she only ate a couple spoons of applesauce and a cookie. Nothing more. However, by that Friday, she was refusing fluids as well and was throwing up – A LOT. A dilemma...
Was she just plain sick?
Was she having a soy allergy (we had been trying to introduce her to soy milk and were just 2 days shy of 2 full weeks on soy)?
Was she having a reaction to one of the vaccines she received?
By the time I got home from work she was just a lump of clay on the living room floor. She had a low grade fever – just shy of 101 – nothing dangerous. But her lips were so dry and her eyes were all sunken and she just laid there without moving. Every time I tried to pick her up, she’d throw up. But she had nothing left in her belly so it was that bile stuff and violent dry heaves. Poor baby. So I called the pediatrician and she said to take her to ER.
Fortunately, my mom was still here helping us out while the nanny was on vacation. She stayed home with Grace while Richard and I trekked off to the hospital with Frances. So we get to the ER and they get her in a room pretty quickly. They can tell right away that she’s dehydrated. So they decide to give her IV fluids. Now getting an IV into the arm of a squirming, unhappy baby is not easy (and babies have that extra fat which inhibits searching for veins, being dehydrated doesn't help either) – so the nurses requested that mom and dad help hold her down. Richard subsequently left the room, without notice. So I had to hold her legs and arm down and try to reassure her – the reassuring part being next to impossible. So she was screaming and crying of course because it hurt and she was scared and I was singing to her and talking to her in a fruitless attempt at distraction. Emotionally I was doing really well, since I knew this was to make her feel better. Then it happened… she screamed, “Ma! Ma! Ma!” A knife went straight through my heart. And then I felt horrible. Why? Because that was the FIRST time she called me mom. I felt so horrible because she was clearly seeking my help and I couldn’t do anything to help her, instead, I was aiding in the “torture.” I know that is completely illogical, but really, logic seems to fly out the window when it comes to your child being in distress. Logically, I know that by getting her the IV I was helping her to feel better. Illogically, I wanted to fix her by saying “presto!” Richard returned to the room when she shouted “Da!” They got the IV in right when he was coming up to the bed. He reached to scoop her up for comforting and I admit I was selfish and kept her to myself for comforting – hey, I figured I didn’t want her to view me as the torturer and daddy as her savior. Yes, totally, totally, totally selfish, I know that’s wrong. And for those of you wondering, yes, Richard did feel bad for leaving the room.
So anyway, that’s one reason I hate illnesses and now a very traumatizing way (for me at least) to remember the first time she called me mom.
The ER doctor and nurse assured us it was a stomach virus that we'd just have to wait out. By Saturday she was doing much better and by Sunday, even better still. So on Monday, Richard gave her a bit of milk in the morning. A couple hours later the nanny calls because Frances was throwing up again. I left work early and took that Tuesday off as well to help get her back to keeping the Pedialyte down. We called the pediatrician's office again and they said there was a stomach virus going around that’s taking 2 weeks to clear up and just to keep her on a bland diet with pedialyte for a few more days.
Meanwhile the bumps we noticed a week back have scabbed over, and some new ones appear on Grace. We now suspect Chicken Pox. They got the vaccine at their 12 month checkup and the doctor said they could get it from the vaccine. The nurse at the pediatrician's office confirms the chicken pox diagnosis for Grace on Thursday. By Saturday, a full week and a half after Frances first started feeling yucky, we decide to try (for the second time) introducing a bit of milk back into her diet. Grandma and Grandpa who had left town for the week had returned just in time for her to start vomiting all over again (poor Richard got drenched, Linda Blair-style). It is at this point we conlude the vomiting is indeed an allergic reaction to soy.
After input from 5 medical professionals (pediatrician, ER doc, 3 nurses), who all assured Richard and I that Frances' illness was in no way allergy or vaccine related, we discover that those were in fact the culprits. We did the calculations as to when the bumps first appeared on both girls. Grace had far more and they started the same Wednesday that Frances' appetite started to disappear. At that point, Frances had a couple bumps. And then the day after we took Frances to the ER I noticed a big red welt on her thigh, and asked my parents if they thought it was a spider bite because there were two small bumps in it. I thought maybe that was making her sick. My mom noted that was where she got her vaccines. And Grace got the same big welt where her vaccines were too! So Frances' low grade fever was probably attributable to the chicken pox and she just happened to be unfortunate enough to have her soy allergy present itself at the exact same time! Poor girl.
Anyway, we starved her for a week and a half for nothing. But I can't be completely angry with the doctors, it's hard to diagnose an infant -- hell, it took us a week and a half to figure it all out and we're with her all the time. It's still so frustrating when they completely rule out otherwise plausible explanations. Ah well. And Richard kept saying "soy allergy" and I kept saying "no" because all the medical professionals said "no way." I guess we've learned to trust our instincts. Nobody knows your child better than you do.
So now Frances is back on her hypoallergenic formula and right as rain. She had been our little “chubbette,” but due to her illness, lost considerable weight. She looks so skinny to us. At the ER visit she weighed in at 22 ¼ pounds - that’s a whole pound and a quarter down from her 12 month checkup the week before! We're guestimating that she probably lost at least 2 pounds during the whole ordeal, which is a lot for someone so little.
So now, Frances is on a dairy, soy and egg free diet. The allergist said the stricter we are about elminating all potential sources of allergen, the quicker she could grow out of them. Cross fingers! We're reassured by the fact that Grace has outgrown her milk allergy and is on whole cow's milk now. As for the chicken pox, Grace had several more appear on Monday of this week but hopefully this is the last batch. Thanks to it being the mild version from the vaccine, it has been pretty "easy." Frances only had a few pox and the fever. Grace had more pox but no fever. Interesting.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
12 Month Checkup
We had our 12 month check-up with the pediatrician today. Here are the stats...
Grace
Weight: 23 lbs. 12 oz. (88th percentile)
Length: 30 inches (76th percentile)
Head circumference: 46.5 cm (80th percentile)
Frances
Weight: 23 lbs. 8 oz. (85th percentile)
Length: 30 inches (76th percentile)
Head circumference: 46 cm (76th percentile)
We had an appointment with the pediatric GI doctor at the end of June and we've gained over a pound just since then and have grown 2 inches - in less than one month! Those growth spurts are crazy.
All is well. We didn't mind the anemia test, but we hated the shots. All is well though. I forgot to update on that GI appointment they had back in June. So I'll mention it here... Grace is transitioning to regular whole milk now and Frances is trying out soy milk. We're not quite a week down yet (just one bottle in the morning of the "real" stuff) - we need to wait and watch for two weeks to be sure there's no allergy issues. Wish us luck! We could sure use the money we'd save on formula to help pay the car bill.
Grace
Weight: 23 lbs. 12 oz. (88th percentile)
Length: 30 inches (76th percentile)
Head circumference: 46.5 cm (80th percentile)
Frances
Weight: 23 lbs. 8 oz. (85th percentile)
Length: 30 inches (76th percentile)
Head circumference: 46 cm (76th percentile)
We had an appointment with the pediatric GI doctor at the end of June and we've gained over a pound just since then and have grown 2 inches - in less than one month! Those growth spurts are crazy.
All is well. We didn't mind the anemia test, but we hated the shots. All is well though. I forgot to update on that GI appointment they had back in June. So I'll mention it here... Grace is transitioning to regular whole milk now and Frances is trying out soy milk. We're not quite a week down yet (just one bottle in the morning of the "real" stuff) - we need to wait and watch for two weeks to be sure there's no allergy issues. Wish us luck! We could sure use the money we'd save on formula to help pay the car bill.
Monday, July 18, 2011
One Year Old!
Happy Birthday to our little ladies, Frances and Grace, it has been a whirlwind year. We've been so busy and I haven't been able to keep up with blogging like I had hoped. We might be sticking with just picture updates - but even that's hard for me!
We're changing so much. We've got 8 teeth a piece now, and Grace has 2 more on the way. We pull up and cruise a lot. We've stood solo a few times, Frances even stood and danced yesterday, but we're no where near proficient at the standing solo thing. Grandma is hoping they hold off on walking until August (after she leaves hahaha). Yep, grandma is here for the month. Her and my neighbor's daughter, Jas, are watching the babies while the nanny is on vacation in Peru. We appreciate grandma a lot! The girls' vocabulary hasn't grown too much. Still just a lot of babbling. But they both say "Hello" - well, in baby talk, "eh roh." And Grace says "Go" sometimes. And Richard and I are convinced they are saying "gima" for "grandma." They like dancing and playing peek-a-boo.
I will upload pictures soon! I have some from the baptism and some from here. I'm running behind.
Happy birthday to our snuggle bunnies. Love love love you!
We're changing so much. We've got 8 teeth a piece now, and Grace has 2 more on the way. We pull up and cruise a lot. We've stood solo a few times, Frances even stood and danced yesterday, but we're no where near proficient at the standing solo thing. Grandma is hoping they hold off on walking until August (after she leaves hahaha). Yep, grandma is here for the month. Her and my neighbor's daughter, Jas, are watching the babies while the nanny is on vacation in Peru. We appreciate grandma a lot! The girls' vocabulary hasn't grown too much. Still just a lot of babbling. But they both say "Hello" - well, in baby talk, "eh roh." And Grace says "Go" sometimes. And Richard and I are convinced they are saying "gima" for "grandma." They like dancing and playing peek-a-boo.
I will upload pictures soon! I have some from the baptism and some from here. I'm running behind.
Happy birthday to our snuggle bunnies. Love love love you!
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Photos FINALLY Updated and New Videos
Just and FYI I finally updated the Photos page and the Videos page (see links to the right)
Saturday, June 04, 2011
Meeting Aunt Amber and Cousin Isaak!
My brother came to visit over Memorial Day weekend. His girlfriend, Amber, and her 2-year old son, Isaak, came as well. We were excited for the girls to meet their Aunt Amber and their new cousin, Isaak. I don't really know if the girls were "excited" per se, because they're a little too young for that concept, but I think they had fun. And Richard and I were excited to meet our new nephew as well - and Amber too of course!
They came down on Friday night and stayed at Aunt Sig and Uncle Freddy's house. They went to the zoo on Saturday, while we went car shopping. (See more info on that below.) We had put the girls in bed for the night before they arrived at our house Saturday night. When they came, Isaak warmed up real quick. He's soooo freakin' cute! The next day all the kids were able to meet for the first time. Frances was a bit latchy the whole weekend, but was relatively okay. Grace loved following Isaak around - though I'm not too sure he enjoyed having her follow him hahaha. We think Isaak had a little issue sharing the spotlight with the "new babies" - gave Tom and Amber a bit of a preview on introducing their new little one come October.
They went to the Aquarium in Baltimore late Sunday morning into the afternoon. When they got back, we BBQ'd and Aunt Sig, Uncle Freddy, Glenn and Andi came over for some grub.
Isaak was a ball of fun to have around. Like I said, Grace would just glom onto wherever he was. She's used to bullying Frances around, taking her toys and such, so it was nice to have a kid that was more coordinated and agile than her to give her a bit of her own medicine. hehehe.
The whole crew left Monday afternoon to head back north. We had fun :-)
As I mentioned earlier, we went car shopping on Saturday. Our Volvo broke down and needed to be towed twice in one week. The mechanic suggested a new vehicle might be in store if we could afford it. So we looked at minivans - and no, we don't care about the stereotype, we need the space! The mechanic said NOT to buy a Chrylser. And he said not to buy a Kia either, but that it was better than Chrysler. He said Toyota or Honda, if we could afford it. Do you know how expensive minivans are? Wholly smokes! Especially the good quality and good reliability ones? We really lucked out and snagged a 2010 Honda Odyssey with 7,200 miles on it. It was priced about $4K below the blue book value because the previous owner had been a smoker. It's the bare-bones model. Nothing fancy. But we don't care about that stuff, we want something that will last 10 years or more. So woohoo, we're a minivan family. And now it's nice to know the girls could fit in either car should one breakdown or something. We're working on getting the smoke smell out before we put the carseats in the van. The Volvo was a 2000 with over 150K on it. We sold it at Carmax on Sunday and still managed to snag $1200 for it. The Taurus is a 2001 with about 150K on it. Let's cross our fingers that one doesn't die soon too! We can't afford two car payments!
Anywho, I have only a few pictures from the weekend because we were so busy. I'll hopefully get around to uploading them soon.
They came down on Friday night and stayed at Aunt Sig and Uncle Freddy's house. They went to the zoo on Saturday, while we went car shopping. (See more info on that below.) We had put the girls in bed for the night before they arrived at our house Saturday night. When they came, Isaak warmed up real quick. He's soooo freakin' cute! The next day all the kids were able to meet for the first time. Frances was a bit latchy the whole weekend, but was relatively okay. Grace loved following Isaak around - though I'm not too sure he enjoyed having her follow him hahaha. We think Isaak had a little issue sharing the spotlight with the "new babies" - gave Tom and Amber a bit of a preview on introducing their new little one come October.
They went to the Aquarium in Baltimore late Sunday morning into the afternoon. When they got back, we BBQ'd and Aunt Sig, Uncle Freddy, Glenn and Andi came over for some grub.
Isaak was a ball of fun to have around. Like I said, Grace would just glom onto wherever he was. She's used to bullying Frances around, taking her toys and such, so it was nice to have a kid that was more coordinated and agile than her to give her a bit of her own medicine. hehehe.
The whole crew left Monday afternoon to head back north. We had fun :-)
As I mentioned earlier, we went car shopping on Saturday. Our Volvo broke down and needed to be towed twice in one week. The mechanic suggested a new vehicle might be in store if we could afford it. So we looked at minivans - and no, we don't care about the stereotype, we need the space! The mechanic said NOT to buy a Chrylser. And he said not to buy a Kia either, but that it was better than Chrysler. He said Toyota or Honda, if we could afford it. Do you know how expensive minivans are? Wholly smokes! Especially the good quality and good reliability ones? We really lucked out and snagged a 2010 Honda Odyssey with 7,200 miles on it. It was priced about $4K below the blue book value because the previous owner had been a smoker. It's the bare-bones model. Nothing fancy. But we don't care about that stuff, we want something that will last 10 years or more. So woohoo, we're a minivan family. And now it's nice to know the girls could fit in either car should one breakdown or something. We're working on getting the smoke smell out before we put the carseats in the van. The Volvo was a 2000 with over 150K on it. We sold it at Carmax on Sunday and still managed to snag $1200 for it. The Taurus is a 2001 with about 150K on it. Let's cross our fingers that one doesn't die soon too! We can't afford two car payments!
Anywho, I have only a few pictures from the weekend because we were so busy. I'll hopefully get around to uploading them soon.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
And Our New Baby Cousin is....
A GIRL! Tom and Amber had an ultrasound appointment today and all is well. Frances and Grace have many clothes to share with their new baby cousin. And I'm sure Isaak is excited to have a new baby sister on the way. I hope he can handle all the estrogen in the family hehehe.
Congrats! Can't wait until October 18!
Congrats! Can't wait until October 18!
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Allergy Test and 10 Months Old
The girls had their food allergy skin tests today. The appointment was at 3:30 and we didn't get home until 5:30 - crazy! Anywho, Grace came back negative for everything; and Frances came back with a bit of a reaction to eggs, everything else was negative. Soooo ... you'd think, "That's it - all is well with milk and soy now!" BUT not so fast. The allergist said there can be two types of allergic reactions to food. He said that the gastro-intestinal system can have an internal allergic reaction - presenting via diahrrea and bloody stool, etc.(sans the typical external signs - hives, sneezing, etc.). He said the most conclusive test for that type of reaction is an endoscopic biopsy. But the girls are so little, it seems too invasive at this point. So basically we have to try introducing some milk based formula slowly (an ounce per day). We'll start this weekend. The doctor gave us a prescription for a couple epi-pens to be safe. So we'll see if they have reactions or not. If they have a reaction, then we'll be sent for blood tests - yearly - until they are old enough for endoscopy.
And update on stats:
Frances weighs in at 23 pounds (95th percentile)
Grace weighs in at 22 pounds (90th percentile)
Don't know the heights...
Frances is now saying: dada, baba, tete, nene, mama, gaga, and mixtures of the former. The other day the nanny said "Dorita" in reference to Dora and Frances said "doraaaaaahhh" - although I'm pretty sure that last one was just a coincidence. Sra. Esther and I laughed in surprise. haha. Frances can now go from sitting to crawling.
Grace says baba and dada. And the next day after my last post she had mastered sitting. Anywho, we can't keep them in one spot for too long. It's tiring and amusing at the same time. Grace loves to climb and pull on everything.
The girls seem to acknowledge each other more - for better or worse. Sometimes they get angry having the other one near them. Other times it seems as though they are talking to each other and mildly interacting. Should get more interesting the older they get.
We're 10 months old tomorrow! Time is flying by so fast :-(
And update on stats:
Frances weighs in at 23 pounds (95th percentile)
Grace weighs in at 22 pounds (90th percentile)
Don't know the heights...
Frances is now saying: dada, baba, tete, nene, mama, gaga, and mixtures of the former. The other day the nanny said "Dorita" in reference to Dora and Frances said "doraaaaaahhh" - although I'm pretty sure that last one was just a coincidence. Sra. Esther and I laughed in surprise. haha. Frances can now go from sitting to crawling.
Grace says baba and dada. And the next day after my last post she had mastered sitting. Anywho, we can't keep them in one spot for too long. It's tiring and amusing at the same time. Grace loves to climb and pull on everything.
The girls seem to acknowledge each other more - for better or worse. Sometimes they get angry having the other one near them. Other times it seems as though they are talking to each other and mildly interacting. Should get more interesting the older they get.
We're 10 months old tomorrow! Time is flying by so fast :-(
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Did I Say We Are Changing Fast?
Okay so just since yesterday...... Frances is a full-on crawler now! Wow! And Grace is pulling up in her crib. Crazy I tell you. I'll have to upload some photos and videos - but for now, here is a picture Richard took of Grace standing at her toy in the morning (via cellphone, hence the blurry quality).
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| Grace standing. |
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